Observed arrival · 2026-09-27
In a Wave: a private log for feelings that come in waves
A daily tracker for relationship feelings, wellbeing, and perimenopause symptoms, designed to help users notice patterns without telling them what those patterns mean.
- For
- People tracking relationship feelings and perimenopause symptoms
- Worth noticing
- Its “Reality Check” compares current feelings with the user's own reports from similar low-connection periods, without offering stay-or-leave advice.
Field notes
The check-in prompts cover connection, mood, stress, sleep, physical symptoms, and desire; the page says comparisons can span 30, 60, or 90 days. Its example summary explicitly calls a relationship between stress and wanting space an association, not a cause. A partner card can name a need such as affection, listening, or practical help without sharing the underlying history. The deletion warning also distinguishes local data removal from cancelling billing or deleting a cloud backup.
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