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The Architecture of Intimacy — 369 Green Flags for Relationships
A research-grounded library of 369 relationship green flags, organized into eight parts and 26 themes.
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- People reflecting on relationship patterns and habits
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- The example Repair Attempts (071) says easing tension does not necessarily settle the disagreement.
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The library groups its entries into eight parts, from Foundations to Fairness, Trust Repair, and the Working Partnership. Its opening explanation describes a green flag as a sign to notice rather than a requirement, and the Repair Attempts example says a gesture can ease tension without resolving the disagreement. The homepage cites relationship research, including a machine-learning analysis of 43 longitudinal studies.
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